Do You Only Get One Chance?

When I was a teenager I lived in a fairly boring place called North Bay. My friends and I hung out at a small grocery store with a coffee shop called DeMarco’s, I have no idea why, but that’s where we went pretty much every day. One evening we were sitting in there, having coffee and venting teenage angst and whatnot when two interesting characters walked through the door. They were two members of the band Econoline Crush, who was playing in town that night.

I didn’t recognize them, but my friends and boyfriend certainly did. I believe it was the guitar player and the bassist, but I could be wrong. I remember thinking how cool they were. One was wearing a leather jacket and had cool spikey hair, the other was wearing a long black trench coat and a thick black and white striped scarf. I don’t know why I remember that. They were also incredibly nice. They bought coffee and some snacks and took pictures with DeMarco’s staff and signed some stuff for them before heading back out into the cold, back to the club they were playing that night.

Even though my friends, and myself as time went on, were big fans of this band, we weren’t going to the show. I think it was a 19+ venue, we certainly didn’t have any money, or our parents may not have been on board, in any case, we weren’t going, and it sucked. I remember vividly the heavy, sick feeling in my stomach watching those two walk away.

Fast forward, yowzahh, nearly twenty years…

A few weeks ago my then boyfriend, now husband and I were on holidays. We were heading out of the city to visit an organic honey farm, I kid you not. We were driving on a road to nowhere, going nowhere and what did I spy on the roadside? A small billboard advertising a fundraising concert in a small town close to where we live. Six bands were playing the event, but I saw the name of only one: Econoline Crush. Twenty years, nearly twenty years had passed. It might as well have been twenty seconds.

Never have I smart-phone googled something so rapidly. The event raises money for spinal cord research and Finger Eleven was the headliner, an awesome band that we’ve seen before, and who is on just before them? Yep, I read the sign right, Econoline Crush. It took us about a nanosecond to decide we were going to this event and scramble up some tickets. It was Friday, August 14. Gates open at five. Five, that’s cute. It was on a Friday, so my husband and I had to perform some athletic feats to leave work on time and get ready, but we made it happen. Some friends decided to come with us so they picked us up and we headed out, trying to ignore the threatening skies and risk of severe thunderstorms.

I was panicky, as I always am when something I really want is close to happening. What if the concert was rained out? What if the band couldn’t make it? What if I got struck by lightning and died before Econoline Crush came on? Completely legitimate concerns. Fortunately none of those things happened. It was a great outdoor venue and with all the weather warnings it was busy, but not crowded. The sound was excellent. There was food, beer and lots of bathrooms. Except for the black skies and flashes of lightning, it looked things were shaping up to be pretty great. I got a beer and waited. Since we were late arriving, there were only two bands on before Econoline Crush. I stood back while my friends and husband grabbed some food and tried to listen, but I just couldn’t get into them. I was there for one reason and one reason only, to make up for a missed opportunity.

I hung back and waited, searching the ominous skies for any chance of clearing. Our other friends were mostly there for the headliner, Finger Eleven. When the fourth band finished their set, I made my move. Twenty years is a long time to wait for something and I’m a lot less docile these days. So while they were setting up Econoline Crush’s gear, I finished my beer and strutted my way right up to the front of the stage like a woman possessed. Lightning was rampant by that point and my husband and I exchanged a glance, wouldn’t it just be our luck for the show to get cancelled. Our friends elbowed their way up to the front as well, probably to see what all the fuss was about. This is a band whose greatest success came twenty years ago, after all. But I cared, I cared a lot.

They took to the stage with no banter, just opened with their very first single. It was loud, it was awesome, and the lead singer Trevor Hurst looked exactly how I wanted him too, like a rock star. And he preformed like a rock star. The band was tight, there was lots of energy and Trevor sounded exactly like he should have, twenty years ago or yesterday. They played every song I wanted them to except for one. It started to downpour during their set, but nobody seemed to mind. I sang like a fool, danced incredibly poorly and screamed like an idiot. I didn’t take any pictures because I was too busy making an ass out of myself. My husband took this one:

econoline crush

When their set was done, the singer, Trevor Hurst, said he would be heading to the merchandise both to meet some people and sign some stuff. By that point it was raining pretty hard and my friends and husband didn’t want to lose our awesome spot in front of the stage before Finger Eleven. I didn’t blame them, but it was a no brainer for me, I was going to stalk Trevor Hurst at the merch booth.

I waited in the rain, in the frigging downpour, soaked to the skin. Finger Eleven was up next and the weather was awful, so I was one of only a few. My adrenaline was going, what an awesome show! I was so, so happy, so content that it had finally happened, I’d finally seen Econoline Crush and they were awesome. Then Trevor Hurst actually did show up. He was happy, friendly, he signed cd’s, took pictures with the people waiting and I stood in the line. I didn’t have anything to sign, I’d bought a t-shirt. I didn’t even really know why I was waiting. I looked like a drowned rat, I didn’t want a picture. What did I want? I got to the front, our conversation went something like this:

TH: Hey, how’s it going?

Me: Awesome! Thanks, you guys were kick ass.

TH: Thanks. I saw you up front, you were singing right along with every song!

Me, fainting with delusional glee: You’re @#$^&U right I was, I waited twenty years for this show! (insert Cole’s notes version of North Bay story)

TH: Wow! I hope it was worth the wait.

Me: It was. Sweet Jesus, it was.

TH: Do you want me to sign something for you?

Me: Oh, I already have all of your cd’s, I only bought a t-shirt.

TH: That’s okay, I can sign a t-shirt. (signs t-shirt with sharpie, and spells my name right) Can I tell you a story?

Me, blinking stupidly: Um, yes, please do.

TH: We played Edgefest one year, and it was the weirdest thing, I felt like everything I signed that day was made out to an ‘Erin’ I hope I spelled it right.

Me: You nailed it. I just wanted to say thank you, that was awesome.

TH: Thanks for saying so, it means a lot. (Trevor Hurst and Erin hug. That’s right, Trevor Hurst and Erin hug.)

I wandered back to my husband and friends, signed t-shirt stowed safely into my gigantic, impractical purse, floating on a little cloud of joy. The rain let up, and Finger Eleven played an awesome show, but for me that will always be the time that I finally saw Econoline Crush. Sometimes when you miss an opportunity, you’re painfully aware of it. Something about it stays with you. If you’re really lucky, life might throw you a bone and you might get a second shot at it. If you’re lucky enough to have that happen, let your hair down, sing in the rain, and stalk Trevor Hurst at the merch booth. You never know, you might just get a hug.


About eemoxam

I work at the library and write stuff because books are cool. I like dogs.

Posted on August 25, 2015, in Articles, Canadian Bands, Canadian Music, Music, Music Festivals and tagged , , , , , , , , . Bookmark the permalink. 2 Comments.

  1. Sweet, sweet story! I was there with you, in the ‘crush’ of joy and memories and hope for second chances. Yes, we DO get second chances. 🙂

  2. We do, thankfully. 🙂

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